I was so close to writing ‘broody men’ as
the title before I realized that broody and brooding have entirely different
meanings. Let me just make one thing clear—the men I am going to be talking
about are not obsessed with babies, at least not at the moment.
I have always loved a brooding man. There
is just something so darn irresistible about a man who has a dark past he does
not wish to speak of and a brooding intensity whenever the woman he will
inevitably fall in love with is near.
As much as I would love to say that the
gorgeous, brooding man who wants nothing more than to protect and love his
heroine is completely true to life, I must be realistic and admit that no man
is that perfect. However, this brooding man who has become the stereotype
recently in both books and films, must have sprung from someone’s imagination. And
what is imagination fueled by? Real life.
Men are not as vocal when it comes to their
feelings as women are, and I believe it is from this natural propensity for
suffering in silence that the brooding hero has emerged. Let me give you two
examples of a hero and then you can guess which one I like more:
Example
1:
Alec
smiled at the coffee barista, thanked her, and moved over to wait for his
drink. He took his coffee from the counter and selected a table by the window.
Sliding onto the vinyl seat, he sipped the steaming coffee before removing his
coat and scraping the hair back from his eyes. He pulled his phone from his
pocket and checked the messages, chuckling when he read a message from his best
mate before turning to watch the door. He was waiting for her.
Example
2:
Alec
dropped the coins on the counter carelessly and grabbed the coffee. He headed
straight for a dark corner and slumped into a chair, slinging his feet onto a
nearby stall and raking a hand through his messy hair. His dark eyes roved
about the coffee shop from his vantage point. He burnt his mouth on the coffee
and cursed under his breath before returning his surveillance to the door. He
was waiting for her.
Let’s be honest—who are you more intrigued
by? I gave them the same name, but the first was an ordinary bloke, whilst the
second was brooding. Maybe I am the only one, but there is just something about the second guy….
Brooding men are usually carrying burdens
from their past, possibly emotional or physical pain. They are masculine and
yet protective. They are almost always downright gorgeous.
John Thornton from Elizabeth Gaskell’s North and South is a perfect example of
a brooding man. He is an ambitious mill owner during the industrial revolution,
and to Margaret Hale, a newcomer to the north, he seems like a heartless
employer. Little does she realize the past that drives him forward and, most
importantly, makes him the brooding man he is.
Then there is the classic Mr. Darcy from
Jane Austen’s Pride and Prejudice, a character
who appears to be a proud and rude gentleman. Yet, he is a man who has a past—a
past involving a gentleman who took advantage of his sister’s naivety, and a
past in which he lost his father. That casts him in a new light, does it not?
Finally, there is Mr. Rochester from Jane Eyre by Charlotte Bronte. He is not
only brooding but quite troubled, shackled to an insane wife whom he was
tricked into marrying. Yet, although his flawed human side tries to persuade
Jane to be his mistress, his honor shines through when he attempts to save his
wife from the house fire.
I would categorize all the characters above
as brooding men, not as bad boys. You see, the first difference between the bad
boy and the brooding man is the latter is exactly that—a man
and not a teenage boy. Second, whilst a bad boy can maintain his charm for a
while, he is usually either bad through and through, or his badness stems from
selfishness. A brooding man, on the other hand, can be bad, but he has an
honorable character, even if the world has bashed him about a bit and spun his
moral compass around a few times.
Seeing as I love brooding men, it is no
surprise that the hero of my debut novel, The
Widow’s Redeemer, is another of that kind. What made the Viscount Beauford
the irresistibly brooding Regency hero that he is? If you would like to find
out, look for my novel in both paperback and e-book.
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Well you sold me on The Widow's Redeemer! My favorite characters are usually brooding men. ;) Especially Mr. Rochester.
ReplyDeleteGreat post! I agree. Gotta love a man with secret scars and hidden depths.
ReplyDeleteBrooding men get me every time. In novels that is.
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